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This may sound easy. Positive emotions are the reward for taking the correct action.
Şi mă bucur foarte pan. Manson proposes that people around the world entitle themselves to care about all the wrong things while leaving the important things unattended. Yet the vast majority of life is unextraordinary, indeed quite average. And his success stemmed not from some determination to be a winner, but from the file that he knew he was a loser, accepted it, and then wrote honestly about it. If you are committed to something you basically only need to say 1 YES. Hiding what is shameful is itself a form of shame. Below are the quotes I found most civil. We associate failure with fear and uncertainty.
What are the problems for which I am willing to sacrifice for, to work for? I stedet bør vi bare vænne os til citronens sure smag. Hierdoor blijft het bij denken en moet je enigszins zelf bepalen hoe je problemen aan pakt; - Soms is hij te oordelend en vertelt hij zijn verhaal te veel vanuit een persoonlijke insteek.
The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck - His orders called to do as much as damage as he could to overwhelming Allied forces and basically fight to the death without surrendering or taking his own life.
Below are the quotes I found most interesting. If you like them, please. And his success stemmed not from some determination to be a winner, but from the fact that he knew he was a loser, accepted it, and then wrote honestly about it. He never tried to be anything other than what he was. It was the opposite. It was his simple ability to be completely, unflinchingly honest with himself — especially the worst parts of himself — and to share his failings without hesitation or doubt. It causes you to become overly attached to the superficial and fake, to dedicate your life to chasing a mirage of happiness and satisfaction. THe point is to find the shit you enjoy dealing with. The premise is that happiness is algorithmic, that it can be worked for and earned and achieved as if it were getting accepted to law school or building a really complicated Lego set. If I achieve X, then I can be happy. If I look like Y, then I can be happy. If I can be with a person like Z, then I can be happy. This premise, though, is the problem. Happiness is not a solvable equation. He sipped his drink and adjusted the little pink umbrella. Instead, hope for a life full of good problems. Happiness comes from solving problems. What are you willing to struggle for? The Internet has not just open-sourced information; it has also open-sourced insecurity, self-doubt, and shame. And that obsession with improvement stems from an unerring belief that they are, in fact, not that great at all. Because when you give better fucks, you get better problems. And when you get better problems, you get a better life. When we feel that our problems are being forced upon us against our will, we feel victimized and miserable. This is the realization that we, individually, are responsible for everything in our lives, no matter the external circumstances. But we always control how we interpret what happens to us, as well as how we respond. Many people may be to blame for your unhappiness, but nobody is ever responsible for your unhappiness but you. Redefine your metrics in mundane and broad ways. Choose to measure yourself not as a rising star or an undiscovered genius. Choose to measure yourself not as some horrible victim or dismal failure. Instead, measure yourself by more mundane identities: a student, a partner, a friend, a creator. The narrower and rarer the identity you choose for yourself, the more everything will seem to threaten you. All of life is like this. Gone are the fake niceties and verbal webs of politeness. If you really like someone and are having a great time, you tell her that you like her and are having a great time. Rather, a healthy relationship is when two people solve their own problems in order to feel good about each other. And our relationship falls apart without our even knowing it. Commitment allows you to focus intently on a few highly important goals and achieve a greater degree of success than you otherwise would.